In order to help you child to stop a finger-sucking habit,
this practice recommends a behavior
modification program. Please be aware that no "THING" will make
your child
stop a habit! This
program is set up to create the circumstances to allow the
child to decide
to stop by him/herself.
All behavior modification programs are based on a POSITIVE
APPROACH. In no way should
your child be made to feel that this is a punishment or a
result of "bad"
behavior. Emphasize that
it is Dr. Psaltis' idea and that they have had excellent
results in helping many children to stop
finger sucking.
SUCK-CESS is a clear gel, which is objectionable in taste when
placed in the mouth. It primarily
serves as a reminder to the child to not place her/his finger
inside the
mouth. SUCK-CESS does
NOT, as mentioned above, make the child stop! PLEASE KEEP
LID TIGHTLY
CLOSED.
The program is relatively simple: the parent will apply a
single stripe
of SUCK-CESS over the
involved finger from the front of the knuckle to the back. This
should
be done twice per day,
AFTER breakfast and AFTER dinner. The child will keep a
calendar in his/her
room on which
she/he will keep track of days when sucking occurred and when
it did not.
Agree to a plan that is
neutral-- that is, don't make a "good mark" for not sucking and
a "bad
mark" for sucking. Last of
all, agree on a reward ahead of time such as a video rental, or
lunch
at McDonald's or whatever is
worthwhile for the child. After 30 consecutive days of no
sucking, give
the child the reward.
The basis for this program is simply this-- the regularity of
the finger
painting with SUCK-CESS
will establish consistency and concrete actions toward ending
the habit.
The calendar will heighten
the child's awareness of what is usually an unconscious habit
in order
that the child can decide to
stop doing it. It is impossible to stop a habit that one is not
aware
of. The reward is exactly that-- a
recognition that the child has given up something that is
important (for
whatever reason) to the
child.
If the program isn't succeeding afer 2-3 months, simply tell
your child
that it seems as though you
haven't started at the best time for the change and that you
are now stopping
the program
temporarily. Be sure to tell the child that the program will be
started
again on _________________
(be specific) and set the date clearly, such as Valentine's Day
or Thanksgiving,
or some other day
that the child will recognize. Occasionally the program will
not succeed,
although this is rare. In
some cases, the habit may need to be dealt with through the
counseling of other professionals, such
as a psychologist. This is not a sign of any mental illness--
it sometimes
occurs that habits are
deeply ingrained and may actually have a true psychological
basis.